Safewords in Kink Life and in Kink Fiction

As a heads up, this post will discuss consent in BDSM at length and with nuance, and will reference an abusive BDSM relationship briefly, without giving details. A few words about safewords Some kinky folks absolutely believe that safewords are necessary across the board for everyone. Some believe that it might be different with experienced […]

My 2015 Book List: New Romances I Found This Year

So, as the booklists of 2015 abound, I’ve been thinking about my reading habits in 2015. They changed dramatically. I used to go to the library about once per week, and 90% of the books I read were hard copy. I found books in a combination of ways, but primarily I reread books I already […]

A Starter Pack of BDSM Romance

Yesterday I was talking with Mia Hopkins about BDSM romance, and how so much of it is rooted in fantasy. I’m especially entertained by the visions of BDSM clubs that exist in the genre. The secret societies. The corral where you park your submissive to hang with your Dom buddies. The hierarchy where there is the […]