How much realism *should* be part of BDSM erotica?

A few years ago, I was reading my work at a BDSM themed erotica event. I chose to read a story about two trans guys because there were no other queer stories being read (in fact one of the stories that was read had some rather intense homophobia in it), and I wanted to have […]

The complexity of tops

The last time I taught at LSM, I wore a t shirt with this image on it. As a way to get started in the class, I asked someone to describe the panels to the room, as it was likely they could not be seen by all. And I talked about the ways that it […]